Two days and a loving commitment are all that are needed to establish a healthy domestic discipline plan for your relationship. Are you ready to get started on the path to a healthy domestic discipline relationship? The boot camp experience may be a challenge, but establishing a safe, healthy, and effective domestic discipline dynamic will ensure your relationship remains stable, secure, and happy for many years to come. He is a wonderful man, he works hard, he loves me, and he absolutely deserves all of what I can give him and then some.
He is my world. He means everything to me. He takes wonderful care of me. I need this from him. I crave it. I need it to breathe and to function. Domestic Discipline can be mistrewed and contorted and twisted if in the wrong intentions. That is why we try to set out to get all the information out there possible, through websites and books and also the Bible.
What I need from my husband is as follows: I need him to love me first and foremost. I need him to take care of me. I need him to guide me to make the right decisions. I need him to monitor my behavior. I need to be given a plum line to measure up to. I need him to expect things from me… daily. Such as… I need to have a list of chores that need to be done everyday, I need to have him make sure that my meds are taken as prescribed. I need him to monitor my whereabouts. I need him to expect the best behavior from me at all times.
I am quite sure there are countless numbers of things I have not posted… I will post more as I come up with them. With that being said, I expect to be punished in any way that he sees fit to keep me on target and to make me learn from my mistakes. Whether that be a bare assed spanking, or revocation of privileges, or corner time or what have you, then so be it.
It is his decision and authority to make. He has all the authority. Yes, I have an opinion and am free to voice it, but he has the ultimate say so in our house. I do not question him, well… not all the time. I do not back talk…. I would like to see my attitude change. There are things I want for myself that I need his help with.
He has his hands full to say the least. I absolutely expect to be punished for my short comings and be monitored through spankings to be kept in check. Does anyone have any advice for this particular problem? I cannot imagine I am the only submissive woman who loses her cool once-a-month! I am not really sure why I have begun to blog, except Jack has been urging me to begin writing in order to further develop my talents and this seems to be a good way to practice.
Also, since we have begun the domestic discipline lifestyle, I have been combing the Internet for resources and have found blogs to be the most valuable. Maybe mine will be of service to others.
I am in my late twenties and Jack is in his mid-thirties. We had a whirlwind courtship and eloped eight years ago, when I was What impressed me about him, that I would sacrifice the opportunity to spend my twenties simultaneously building a career and clubbing three nights a week? I understand myself much better now than I did then, of course. Jack is sensitive but masculine, he was a manager and therefore in a position of authority , he was and still is very attractive and protective.
Oddly enough, I was still dating my high school sweetheart when we met in a club outside of my college campus in Ohio. Before we parted ways at the end of the evening, he asked for my number. I hesitated. I told myself that we could be friends yeah, right and jotted the number on a napkin. He gave me his pager number. When I got home, I took off my coat and reached into my pocket for my keys. I pulled out his number. I was going to throw it in the trash bin, but his words rang in my head.
Less than six months later we were married and on our way to Niagara Falls. Filed under: Domestic Discipline — Brigid pm. It sounds like he broke through those barriers very well. I am not that spontaneous, and as the disciplinarian at home, I explained to my wife before we were married how things work.
It came up naturally several times in conversation, talking about my role in leading, and hers in following, something which she was totally on board with already. She asked at one point, what would I do if she rebelled, and I told her — I give consequences for that. What are the consequences, she asked. I explained if she disrespects me or disobeys, I would take her over my knee, and spank her butt to teach her a lesson.
I believe her next words were — you mean like a child? I told her — kind of like that, except you should know better than child, and you are my wife. Even though we had hammered out the basic rules, it was still immense to see the walls go down the first time I had to correct her. I cannot remember the exact reason she got in trouble, but I remember her vividly taking off her clothes below the waste, slowly walking over to the end of the bed, hesitating, and then bending over it, as I had instructed her.
I got up, took off my belt, which was the wide, thick, black leather kind, and began giving her slow, steady straps on her behind. I strapped her several times, then explained to her about the behavior I expect from her, and then continued. I slowly walked to the other side, began strapping from the other direction, and continued my lecture, and went back and forth like that. She cried very early on, and promised her good behavior from now on. I had her exclaim who she belongs to, who she obeys, and what her attitude needs to be.
Her bottom was a bright red, though I did not strap with great strength. Sometimes I will have my wife get down on her knees and thank me with her lips. It is an enjoyable way for her to show me what her new attitude will be like, by pleasing the one she has offended. Her softness, and responsiveness after a good spanking, in the following days especially, are amazing.
She also becomes more responsive to my verbal corrections and warnings, since she remembers what it is like. It is a tool I am very glad I have in the home. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google account. You are commenting using your Twitter account. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email.
This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. So I previously described how I started in domestic discipline. My well deserved punishment! Share with: Twitter Facebook. Like this: Like Loading Hugs, Hermione Like Like. Yes, it took some time… I will write more about it! Sometimes, a clear talk helps to straghten things out… Like Like. Thanks for the compliment! Thanks again for all the replies and assitance. Rebecca Like Liked by 1 person.
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